How to Stop Co-Sleeping and Transition Your Baby to Their Own Bed

Maybe you fully intended to cosleep when your baby was born and absolutely loved it. Or maybe it was a survival choice when nothing else worked. Either way, it got you through those early months and that’s something to be proud of.

But now… you want your baby to sleep in their own crib, in their own space, and ideally through the night. But honestly the journey to get there feels really overwhelming. 

You want more space in your bed, but feel selfish for saying so.
You miss sleeping deeply, but feel guilty even considering change.
You know your baby is ready, but you second guess yourself constantly.

You’ve probably Googled "how to stop cosleeping without crying" and found a mess of contradicting advice from hardcore sleep training to "just wait it out."

You're stuck between wanting better sleep and worrying you’ll damage your bond if you push it. It’s a draining and it’s not sustainable.

Here’s the truth: Wanting your baby in their own sleep space doesn’t make you a bad parent. It makes you a tired one. And there’s a better way forward.

Step 1: Prep the Space Thoughtfully

What will baby sleep in? A mini crib, full-size crib, or travel crib/pack-n-play?

Honestly… it’s totally up to you. My eldest moved from a bassinet into a full size crib. But when I had my second, the crib and nursery was occupied so we got creative.

We set up a vented closet with a mini crib (yes, ventilation is key if you go this route). She stayed in that mini crib until she was 2! Mini cribs are a fantastic, space saving option for babies under 2.

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Step 2: Transition Tips 

Whether you're moving baby to their own room or just to a separate sleep surface, these prep steps help a lot:

Bedtime routine in the new room
Start doing the full routine in the space they’ll sleep, even if you’re not putting them down there yet. Familiarity helps so much!!!

Sleep with their crib sheets first
Sounds weird, but trust me it works. Your scent is comfort. You can do this even if you're still room sharing and just transitioning to a new crib.

Used sleep sack magic
Have baby wear a previously used sleep sack at bedtime. Bonus if you’ve slept with it first. It’s like a wearable lovey that stays safely on all night. 

Step 3: Pick Your Transition Path

You get to choose what suits your baby and your bandwidth. Here’s a breakdown:

Option 1: The Faster Shift
Start with naps in the crib or in their own room
Once naps are going okay, move to nights
Use a consistent sleep teaching method (not necessarily “cry it out!”)
Many younger babies adapt surprisingly well with the right plan

Option 2: The Gradual Move
Shift baby from your arms to a crib in your bed, or nearby
Move them into a bedside sleeper or pack-n-play in your room
Gradually increase the distance while offering support (e.g. hand-holding, then sitting outside the room)
Use tools like the PUPD method, or Gradual Fading method (yes, they’re all taught in the Cozy Baby Sleep Course!)

 
The Point is You Have Options!

This doesn’t have to be all or nothing. You can take your time. You can comfort your baby and make changes. You can create a plan that feels good in your gut...not just one that looks good on paper.

Inside the Cozy Baby Sleep Course, we’ll help you:

✶ Pick your transition style
✶ Prep the space and your baby for success
✶ Choose the right sleep teaching method for your personality and baby
✶ Troubleshoot if things wobble (because… babies)
✶ Finally get your evenings—and sleep—back

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It’s okay to want sleep. It’s okay to want your bed back. And it’s more than okay to want this transition to feel intuitive for both of you.

And if you are ready to start, you know where I am if you want some extra help and support xx